It’s weird for me to think back to a time when I didn’t know this information. As i’ve been sitting down to write this post I started wondering why, generally speaking there is such a resistance from men to learn social skills and to truly understand female psychology for success with the opposite sex.
As of right now, the only reason i can put my finger on is Ego Backlash and by questioning your skillset in this area, you inadvertently call into question a lot of unknowns about what it is to be a man in today’s world.
Fear not my friend, I’ve taken the hard work out of it for you and below you’ll find 5 of my favourite books all about female psychology, dating and the interplay of feminine and masculine energy that will level up your game overnight.
Relationships & Female Psychology:
The Way of The Superior Man – David Dieda: Almost poetic in the way it’s written, David Dieda lays out the foundational understandings for what it is to be a man on his path and purpose covering all important areas of a man’s life including family, career, women, intimacy, relationships, love and spirituality.
Sperm Wars – Robin Baker: Often debated and cloaked in controversy, evolutionary psychologist Robin Baker breaks down female psychology through the lens of biological drives and evolution of the human species. For a man trying to understand women, this book is a must read as it will open your eyes to another way of seeing through the matrix and understanding what drives people in the areas of intimacy, relationships and sexual conflicts.
Sex At Dawn – Christopher Ryan: Ever wondered why women are more vocal during sex or why women can have multiple orgasms whilst a man has to refresh and recharge? Christopher Ryan presents a range of arguments to school you on these questions and many more. Similarly controversial to Sperm Wars, this book has been hotly debated and contested by feminists and scholars alike. Whilst I don’t necessary prescribe to all of the ideas Christopher Ryan presents, I think this is still mandatory reading for the evolving man because it will offer new and unique perspectives on our sexuality and humanities progression over time in the social groups we live in.
The Rational Male – Rollo Tomassi: An amazing book by behavioural psychologist Rollo Tomassi where he builds upon the most discussed and viewed topics from the last 10 years of writings in his blog – The Rational Male. Rollo dives deep into the mindsets and unconscious behaviours men have ingrained within us from an early age and highlights the somewhat hypocritical social norms in place that have both negative and positive effects on inter gender relationships.
Enlightened Sex – David Dieda: Okay, I know i’ve included David Dieda in here twice but this list wouldn’t be complete without both of these books. David Dieda’s writing style consistently blows me away every time I pick up one of his books and i’m certain he has to be a god or an alien with the way he’s able to really cut through to the core emotional level of love and relationships without any fluff. This book builds upon The Way Of The Superior Man and offers more unique perspectives and frameworks for the reader to understand the energy play between masculine and feminine sources and how to be more present with your lover.